It’s that inherent fear of being abandoned or hated if we are not nice that drives us to be boring women. So, whether you truly are a ‘bad catch’ (you’re not!), being overly ‘nice’ STILL sends this subconscious message to people: I don’t have too many options at my door. Their life is far too interesting, and the other high status people they hang around are far too engaging. There simply is no need to please, because there is always a nice option out there for them. Men with value, and women with value have many, many ‘options’ and potential suitors at their door.īecause of these options, high value people don’t even have the brain space to go out of their way to please people. Why is this? Well, because, people who have value, have a lot of options to choose from. If you choose to pay attention, I promise it will help you know how to stop being a boring girlfriend.įrom an evolutionary perspective, the ‘nicest’ people (especially nice men) the people who like to please people and get their approval, only think they have to be nice because they feel like don’t have too many mating “options”. Now I’m about to get a tiny bit ‘evolutionary thinking’ on you in the next paragraph. It’s not always true, but there’s definitely truth in it. It’s like that old saying “he’s not an asshole. But it usually takes a certain type of person to “bring out” their less selfish side. They’re Not A Bitch, They’re Just A Bitch To You…Ī bitchy or selfish person is rarely a selfish person with everybody.Įven the most selfish people have unselfish sides. QUIZ TIME: Are you truly living in your feminine energy? CLICK HERE to find out with my specially crafted 9 Question Quiz! You don’t have to be a slave to your rules, because it’s these same rules that make you boring and less able to access your high value feminine energy. These are extreme examples, but they serve the purpose of making a point.Īnd that point is that some people are going to inspire the bitch in you. I’ve had people tell me that they are always kind and respectful to everybody.
You just need to be okay with knowing that you have a bitch inside you, and that this bitch will come out at the right people in your life. You don’t even have to set out to be a bitch. You don’t have to be a bitch to everyone. Whereas so-called “nice” men and women end up alone. Have you ever noticed that some of the most selfish, crazy, egocentric or even arrogant people still have people gravitating toward them? So, How Not To Be Boring In A Relationship?.What Are The 5 Mindsets Of Boring Girlfriends?.Women With Authentic Emotion Are More Trustworthy To Men.Why Can A Woman Get Away With Slapping A Man In Public?.They’re Not A Bitch, They’re Just A Bitch To You….
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